“I fed her and played with her, day after day

Cried and laughed, keeping her sorrows at bay

I taught and trained her on the ways of the world

And yet, she’s shying from me, as her own unfurled

 

A piece of my heart, love, is what she made me do

When I say that in front of friends, she now turns blue

Embarrassed with me, distance more is all she wants

The one who cried for me is now ready with taunts

 

Does she not know that she steals my meaning?

That she’s not grown yet, too early for weaning?

 

And when I tell her that, her eyes bring a pause

Saying silently to me, hoping to cut the chaos

“I am growing faster than you can keep pace

Mamma, must I slow? Or will you join the race?”

 

Oh how right she is. Full of wisdom and beauty.

What’s preventing me then, this call of parent’s duty?

These identities that I clutch with a super tight fist

Pull from growing me to match with her tryst

 

Sweethearts like me, who wrestle(d) with your teenage girls

Lets do The Work! To see ‘em those hidden pearls

Memories in the past or the present, the time is always ripe

To let HER off the hook, to let go all the gripe”

 

6 weeks online course anchored in The Work of Byron Katie supported with concepts borrowed from the book “Untangled” by Dr. Lisa Damour. Purchase of this book is recommended because it's a great one, however purchase is NOT mandatory for doing the course itself.

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Fees: USD 175 (Sliding scale starts from USD 75 if you really need it, thank you!)  

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Optional IFS integrated Work sessions for going deeper at an additional fee.

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Timing options - starting 9th June 2026 (tentative)

1. 6 30 pm Pacific time (AND)

2. 8 am London time (or) 11 am London time

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Each class will be for 90 minutes over Zoom. Opportunity for homework partnering, and sharing reflections between classes. 

 

Facilitator: Deepa (https://www.aumcoming.com/about-me)

  

Contact for questions and expressing your interest: +65 83579123/ deepans08@gmail.com